Blog - Future
Future
Interrail a long time ago
35 years ago, in the summer, I set off to explore Europe with an Interrail ticket. I actually wanted to go to Belfast. The trip was originally planned, but everything changed after my first stop in Amsterdam. The energy of the trip to Belfast fascinated me, but I quickly realized that I would only have...
Read More...Unusualness of the decision
I remember travelling alone to the south, probably to the Canary Island of Fuerteventura. It was a relaxed holiday resort where life seemed easy and you could almost forget that everyday life would eventually return. It was a club, one of those places where you quickly got to know people who spoke...
Read More...My Daughters – 2 plus 1
Sometimes I feel as if I have experienced twice as many years as the number on my passport says. This is not due to the time, but to the wealth of experiences I have had. My life has always been full of occupations, interests, and relationships – and I have consciously chosen all of this. I was...
Read More...The whale shark – the giant of the ocean
Ever since I was a teenager, I had wanted to get up close to a whale shark. I wanted to experience these gentle giants of the sea at close range, in their natural habitat, gliding freely through the vastness of the ocean. I had this one moment in mind, combining pure bliss and humility: floating...
Read More...Ilse - the most beautiful eyes
Ilse and I have known each other for ages! Our friendship is something very special. She has become more and more solid over the years and is one of the few people who really understands me on a deeper level - or perhaps sometimes overwhelms me, but that just makes her even more interesting! Ilse...
Read More...The Saxon Switzerland
Our trip to Saxon Switzerland was a truly adventurous tour. Sometimes you just have to break out of your routine and let nature and chance guide you. Even the journey there was a real highlight – the bizarre rock formations that slowly appeared on the horizon looked like the backdrop to an old...
Read More...Katja - a marvellously clever beauty
Katja was absolutely the most fascinating woman I have ever met! She was simply incredible! A breathtaking beauty, with a razor-sharp mind and impressive independence. I was fascinated by her time and time again. Her eyes had an expression that seemed so deep, as if they could see into a person's...
Read More...Our journey into the wild heart of Saxony-Anhalt
Our journey into the wild heart of Saxony-Anhalt started full of anticipation and a dash of childlike spirit of adventure. My two daughters and I had decided not just to climb any old mountain – no, it had to be the Brocken! The highest mountain in the Harz region is 1141 metres high. It is very...
Read More...He wants to stay single
It is an empirically proven fact that every person is dumped or – to put it politely – abandoned by a friend at least once in their life. As a result, those affected were characterised by grief, despondency and anxiety for a long period of time. In the present, they report a positive emotional...
Read More...Allow yourself the moments of sadness, but only when you choose it.
It's important to acknowledge and honor our emotions, including moments of sadness. Allowing yourself to experience and process sadness is a healthy part of being human. However, the idea of choosing when to feel sad might need a bit more context. Emotions can arise unexpectedly due to various...
Read More...For You Have No Love in You ...
Several years ago, a good friend told me a story he had experienced. It was exactly this story. Once upon a time, there was a man called Marvin who led a life full of diversity and movement. He went through both good and not-so-good phases, had numerous experiences and gradually began to define...
Read More...I want to look forward to a good and beautiful future
A separation can be an extremely emotionally stressful experience. However, there are various steps that can be taken to deal with the associated grief and develop a positive outlook for the future. The following steps are firmly planned by me:
Read More...It is time to find a new way
I have feelings for a woman and I don't hide them. But I also know that this woman rejects me and does not return my feelings. Therefore, it is time to find a new way.
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